my future MIL just emailed me saying that she still hadn't come up with any ideas for what to do for invitations. What to do...
Here is our dilemma:
We are having a rather large (200 people) wedding and reception in the midwest, where I am from (and where a huge majority of our guests are from). My FH and his family are from southern california, and my FMIL is hosting a small dinner party-type reception the month after our wedding for those who couldn't travel (more for friends than family)
We were stuck on how to word invitations, because I didn't want to send wedding invitations to all of my FMIL's friends (and she has LOTS of them), but already some of them were asking when the wedding is and that they would plan on traveling to Chicago for it! We don't have room...so I didn't know what to say.
I bee-lined (no pun intended ;-))it over to the weddingbee boards for some help. After a week of research, here is what I came up with!
-+-We are sending out invitations to all of the people(friends, family, etc) in the midwest for the midwest wedding and reception, as well as close family friends and immediate family of my FH.
-+-We are putting california reception inserts in the invitations of both sides of the immediate family, wedding party and the close california friends.
-+-All of the other friends and more distant family will get a wedding announcement with the california reception insert (we will use the same insert in the wedding announcement as in the midwest invitation)
make sense? Yeah, it took me a while to figure it out too.
Thank you to all of you bees and friends who have gone before me and helped me to handle this invitation situation!